Boarding is by consent rather than compulsion and schools will sense if your child is willing to make the leap into a boarding environment. They will be very wary of taking a boy or a girl on who does not feel comfortable with the idea of spending term time away from home. Decisions can be made more complicated by a sense of parental guilt about sending a child away to school. Boarding may well be able to give the child an education that home and a day school cannot provide, but a completely understandable parental desire to keep the young in the nest may obscure reality.
In a restless world where jobs change and some children are placed in and removed from schools at a rate of knots, sometimes boarding as young as 8 or 9 becomes an option that parents opt for in order to secure a degree of stability for a child. They may dread doing this and fear the worst, but the pastoral care in the relatively small number of boarding Prep Schools has changed beyond all recognition thanks to improvements in communications and indeed the world of accountability, compliance and inspection.